Let’s start off with the cards. Yep, actual conversation cards about legacy, death, life, what matters, and everything we usually avoid bringing up at dinner.
Look, I get that this stuff is weird to talk about. We weren’t exactly raised with, “So what do you want your final days to look like?” as a casual question between bites of spaghetti. Still, these conversations matter. A lot. And they don’t have to be heavy or perfect or perfectly timed. You just have to start.
That’s where these cards come in. Think of them as your unofficial permission slip to go deeper. You can use them with your partner, your parent, your best friend, or even just by yourself with a notebook and a strong cup of tea. No script. No pressure. Just one question at a time.
They’re grouped by themes: values, memories, regrets, and what you hope gets carried forward when you’re gone. No need to tackle them all at once. Shuffle them. Pick one that feels right. Skip the ones that don’t. It’s about being honest. And leaving less unsaid.
So here they are: your 25 conversation starters. Just one card. Just one story. That’s how this starts.